Waving the White Flag of Surrender

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I am a husband to an amazing wife of over 25 years and the father of 3 remarkable young adult sons, and 1 very special daughter-in-law. I am originally from the Chicago area but have lived in the Atlanta area since ‘97. I have been a born-again Jesus follower since '98. Here is a bit about my faith story: https://vimeo.com/333594489

Saturday, December 30, 2023

Steps to Peace

We can all find peace in this life, and even beyond this life, through faith in Jesus.  If you would like to have this peace, follow the steps in this link: https://stepstopeace.org/

No, there is nothing magical in this process, and it does not have to be done like this.  As well, you can follow these steps and not change, because God knows your heart.  If you don’t truly believe, then they are just words. 

Whether you took this leap of faith or not, here are a few videos that can provide you with further insight into God and the Bible:

https://bibleproject.com/explore/category/how-to-read-bible-introduction/

https://bibleproject.com/explore/video/john-1-12/

https://bibleproject.com/explore/video/john-13-21/

https://bibleproject.com/explore/video/gospel-luke-4/

Wednesday, June 10, 2020

Humility’s presence leads to anxiety’s absence.


1 Peter 5:6-7 - Therefore humble yourselves under the mighty hand of God, that He may exalt you at the proper time, casting all your anxiety on Him, because He cares for you.

“Under the mighty hand of God” is an Old Testament symbol of the power of God working in the experience of men, always accomplishing His sovereign purpose.  We are not to fight the sovereign hand of God, even when it brings us through trials and tests.  One of the evidences of a lack of submission and humility is impatience with God in His work of humbling each believer.  God will lift up the suffering, submissive believer in His wisely appointed time.

As for the connection between verse 7 and 6, note that the verb "casting" in verse 7 is a participle (ends in "-ing") making it dependent upon verse 6 and therefore becoming one of the means by which we humble ourselves.  This verse partly quotes and partly interprets Psalm 55:22 “Cast your burden upon the LORD and He will sustain you; He will never allow the righteous to be shaken.”

“Casting” means “to throw something on something,” as to throw a blanket on a donkey (Luke 19:35) and the tense used also means it is a one-time action.  We are to once and for all give all of our cares—past, present, and future—to the Lord. 

What could inhibit us from doing this?  For me, it comes down to trust.  My Dad was not that engaged and I felt like he sent me the message, "I don't know if you can make it in this world but you are on your own".  So, I made a vow as a teenager that I would never need anyone.  Fast-forward, and I still struggle to trust that anyone else (including God) has my best interests in mind.  But I know that is a lie and God can be trusted - but I always have to fight my initial emotional response, which is to handle things on my own.

This set of verses in Peter says God does indeed care but His care comes when we humble ourselves and trust in and depend upon Him fully.  Peter earlier said to "let those also who suffer according to the will of God entrust their souls to a faithful Creator.” (1 Peter 4:19)  Entrust is a banking term meaning “to deposit for safe keeping.”  And Peter uses Creator to remind us that we are simply giving back to God what He has created.

So, God can be trusted with our cares and even our souls.  And as we humble ourselves before Him we can begin to truly rest.  Humility’s presence leads to anxiety’s absence.  When we take matters into our own hands through too much worry, we indicate an absence of humility.  Whether it’s unemployment, exams, singleness, or recurring illness, we may not be able to remove the causes of our anxiety but we can be rid of the anxiety produced by those circumstances.  Our anxiety itself is what we cast upon the Lord, doing exactly what the Bible says to do: humbling ourselves under God’s hand, saying, “Father knows best.”

Sources:
https://www.bible.com/reading-plans/19337/day/6?segment=0 - 'Truth For Dark Days' reading plan, Alistair Begg, day 6

Sunday, May 31, 2020

Waving the White Flag of Surrender

I look at surrender to God in 2 ways:  

1) It is the beautiful act of giving myself up to my loving Father; yielding fully to Him because I know His love, and His will, for me is perfect.  So, why would I not fully surrender to God and His Son Jesus?  

Or...

2) Surrender to God is more like the first definition you find for surrender on Google (or, if you are old school, in the dictionary): to surrender is to "cease resistance to an enemy or opponent and submit to their authority."  I think about that scene in An Officer and a Gentlemen when Richard Gere’s commanding offer (Louis Gossett Jr.) wants him to quit (he wants his D.O.R. - Drop On Request) but Gere refuses and says, “I Got Nowhere Else to Go!”.  I can really relate to this as often it seems that I continue to try to live my life my way.  I might even have good intentions (serve others, etc.) but I control what surrender looks like (yes, I know that is not really surrender).  In the end, it does not work and I realize that yielding to Jesus is the only way.  

However you might come to this place, the beautiful truth is a surrendered life is available to you.  It can be the point in time in your life when you decide to submit to God and follow Him wholeheartedly.  And I hope something you read here might encourage you on your journey.

Thursday, May 28, 2020

A Real Man...

In Robert Lewis' book, "Raising a Modern Day Knight" (ministry link: http://www.rmdk.com/), he distinguishes between the first Adam (also the first man, who was passive) with Jesus (who Christians often refer to as the second Adam, who was bold).  This is my tweaked list from Lewis (I added a couple of things).  

A real man is one who...
1. Yields to God and His Word and is obedient to whatever God calls him to do, as part of the royal priesthood.  The royal priesthood belongs to and serves the King (Jesus) and exercises rule in the areas of authority that each member has.
2. Rejects passivity and acts boldly.
3. Accepts responsibility and accountability.
4. Leads courageously, while following Jesus.
5. Declares God's praise and reign.
6. Expects God's greater reward, always remaining hopeful.

For more on the passivity of man see "The Silence of Adam": https://www.amazon.com/Silence-Adam-Becoming-Courage-World/dp/0310219396

In light of a number of recent events (George Floyd's murder being the latest), what is my response?  The subtitle of "The Silence of Adam" says, “Becoming Men of Courage in a World of Chaos”.  So often my response is not courageous but rather non-existent.  I become passive - I lock up and just stuff my emotions - when faced with situations that seem overwhelming or hopeless - when it seems there is nothing I can do to help.  I posted earlier today on FB that "something HAS to change" but first I have to change and not lose hope that things can be different and I can be part of some positive change in this messed up world.

Sunday, March 01, 2009

Do you love Me? —John 21:17

This is the question that Oswald Chambers unpacks in his devotional today, My Utmost for His Highest. https://utmost.org/modern-classic/the-piercing-question/ 

He touches on how Peter’s denial of Christ is an example of how fragile our devotion really is. Here is part of Oswald’s entry: “But the true love within our inner spiritual self can be discovered only by experiencing the hurt of this question of Jesus Christ.

Unless we are experiencing the hurt of facing every deception about ourselves, we have hindered the work of the Word of God in our lives. The Word of God inflicts hurt on us more than sin ever could, because sin dulls our senses. But this question of the Lord intensifies our sensitivities to the point that this hurt produced by Jesus is the most exquisite pain conceivable. It hurts not only on the natural level, but also on the deeper spiritual level. "For the Word of God is living and powerful . . . , piercing even to the division of soul and spirit . . ."— to the point that no deception can remain (Hebrews 4:12).

There is never any mistaking the pain of the Lord’s Word by His children, but the moment that pain is felt is the very moment at which God reveals His truth to us.”

There is so much sin and brokenness in me that sometimes I feel like I’ll never turn the corner of humility. I am still the old Peter, declaring boldly my love for Christ, as if I’m all that. Striving, instead of abiding. I will always have at least a kernel of desire for others to like me, to respect me. Will I ever be able to allow Christ’s love to flow freely through me, unhindered by my flesh?

Undo me Lord. I need more of you and less of me. When will you tire of dealing with me, Jesus? Thank you for your long-suffering! Make me the kind of man that you want me to be. Don’t stop pursuing my heart! I rest in knowing that you are my hope and you give me hope. “…on this rock I will build my church” (Matt16:18).

Friday, March 30, 2007

Thunder in the desert

I originally wrote the note below when I created this blog.  I had big expectations and I am humbled now by how little I have done, both here and in my life in general.  I am thankful though for a God who offers me (and everyone) a fresh start, a clean slate, a new beginning.  Here is hoping that I listen more to what God is trying to say to me, what He is urging me to do to serve others, to draw them to Him, all in the name of love.


Thunder in the desert…
This refers to the name given to John the Baptist in Mathew 3:3 (The Message). John’s purpose was to prepare the hearts of men and women to receive Jesus. It was Jesus who would bring the seed of salvation, of true life and of freedom. I certainly don’t compare myself to John the Baptist but it is my prayer that the few who observe me here will be drawn to the One who offers living water (Rev 7:17) that can quench any thirst, even in this barren land.